My friends are dating each other
I’d like to think that the second choice isn’t an option, since I’m assuming you don’t want to lose either of your friends. If they are really your best friends, they’ll hear you out and do what they can to keep your friendship intact.
If you really honestly feel like they’re leaving you out, then you say something.
Playing matchmaker among your friends can feel totally great, but unfortunately, it can also be super uncomfortable when two of your close friends start dating because it will inevitably change all your friendships. You might feel jealous or territorial of one or both of their time and company. Once, my best friend and a really close guy friend started dating.
You might get stuck in the middle of their issues, or feel squeamish watching them be affectionate together. They're now happily married, but I'm not friends with either of them anymore. It was a much longer story than just the awkward friendship triangle, but that definitely factored in. Friends and dating:15 Best-Friend Dating Commandments If Your Ex and Your Best Friend Started Dating, Would You Be Mad?
We still stayed close, and as time went on, her romantic feelings died down, while mine increased.
I told both of them about how this made me feel.....betrayed, since they both know how I've felt about me getting together with her, and inferior, since he was attempting to go where I wasn't able to, but they both insisted they were only hanging out as friends, the same way I hang out with either of them, and that I should just relax.
They both promised me that this wasn't going to lead to anything more.
Tonight, I found out through one of her fellow friends who told me with utmost secrecy that they have infact been seeing each other on a pretty regular basis, and she was telling all of her other friends that she and him were now dating, but to keep it a secret from me so that I don't kill both of them.
(Seriously, are these two not yelling at each other?
) They've got their own multitude of things to work out and adjust to, but you know who's taking it really hard? Schmidt is having Nick-based text-message withdrawal, Winston is channeling his anxiety into an obsession puzzles, and neither of them are thrilled that they have to be best friends now.